Came across sumthin worth reading....
Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the
person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate
the people who love us. We miss out
on so many beautiful things and simply because
we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own
selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds and not
for the man of words for you will find rewarding
happiness not with the man you love but the man
who loves you more.
The best lovers are those who are capable of
loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other
person to grow, but never too far to feel
the love deep within your being. To let go of
someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it
only means that you allow that person to find
his own happiness without expecting him to come
back. Letting go is not just setting the other person
free, but it is also setting yourself free from all
bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your
heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength
and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to
dishearten you, but rather let you grow with
wisdom in bearing it. You may found peace in just
loving someone from a distance not expecting
anything in return. But be careful, for this can
sustain life but can never give enough room for us
to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful
memories of the past but real peace and happiness
come only with open acceptance of what reality is
today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance
upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just
find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that
person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our
everyday lives and eventually consumes our
thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we
begin to realize that this person feels nothing more
for us than just a friendship. Don't be so bitter
about it! For it is a kind of friendship that will last
for a lifetime.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and
be closer but in the end our efforts are still
unrewarded and we end up being sorry for
ourselves. You don't have to forget someone you
love. What you need to learn is how to accept the
verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for
yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that
dedication and love to someone more deserving .
Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible
and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to
your feelings but to reason as well. Always
remember that if you lose someone today,
it means that someone better is coming tomorrow:
If you lose love that doesn't mean that you failed in
love. Cry, if you have to, but make it
sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the
bitterness that the past has left with you.
Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back
to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the
love that will stay and last a lifetime.
"When I lost you, I was the one who loved you
most, but between us you lost more. For someday
I can love someone the way that I loved you. But
you will never be loved again the way that I did."
